Sunday, October 26, 2025
Happy Rail Bike Excursion
Monday, October 13, 2025
Blast from the Past
Monday, October 6, 2025
Charge Conference
I attended charge conference last night
even though my feet dragged
thought I was done with these things
but
I'm a member of this one
curious about the church
there is new DS to meet
young Korean shook my hand
is this him? this fellow looks too young
I gave my name but he did not give his
I asked him you are...? yes the DS
I can’t believe we’ve never met (actually I can)
it’s nice to meet you so that much is done.
No opportunity to sneak out
I stayed the duration
worship DS sermon
horrible discernment at church tables
never seen this done
felt sorry for small churches
embarrassed shamed
by having to answer questions.
Two churches doing well
growing excited about everything
Pittsboro and The Local Church
(relatively) new church merged with Evergreen
others not so much.
I feel impotently angry for little churches
who cannot understand
why outsiders do not find them attractive
last year’s charge profile allowed churches
to name villains:
Covid shrinking population
disaffiliations
terrible pastoral leadership
hard to blame shrinking population
in this corner of the state.
I don’t know the answer
nor why my heart hurts for them.
As we were leaving
here came a woman from Evergreen
who remembered me
(I was there briefly with Aldersgate)
we’re doing so well she told me
I’m happy for you! happy also
it appears Local Church and you all
get to keep your (valuable) property I said
after lunching last year
with Evergreen’s former interim pastor
who told she didn’t think it would happen
make it happen I urged her
it was good to see something
that might have ended badly
end very well
praise God.
Thursday, October 2, 2025
Family Album
Thursday, August 28, 2025
Finding my Place?
I visited Pittsboro UMC Sunday for the late service
five minutes from my home.
Lovely worship space
excellent music fantastic choir
congregation not overly friendly
but not unfriendly either
my presence seems to surprise pastors
he was friendlier on my way out the door.
Monday I received email from him
it was a joy having you in worship yesterday etc
this was first welcome note I have received
after sending hundreds of them myself
I emailed in reply I’ve been visiting churches
was invited to PUMC by neighbors
loved the worship service
not familiar with this district
want to sing in choir at church near home
which limits my choices.
Within a few minutes a return email
with contact info for choir director
we’d love to have you in our choir
I emailed director: can visitor join choir?
“Dear Pastor Cheryl” came reply – yes indeed
first fall practice is tomorrow at 7.
Next day I received church coffee mug
filled with chocolate kisses
and note: welcome!
also email from office administrator: welcome!
I think you’re being pursued Keith said
this is what is supposed to happen I replied
coffee mug was a nice touch.
Choir practice was superb also nostalgic
I haven’t been part of a well-led choir
with people who laugh joke enjoy each other
since I was a student at Pleasant Green
I so loved the choir there
my voice is worn out from years of preaching
no one seemed to notice.
Welcome Pastor Cheryl!
please I am retired
I'm really a recovering pastor
they all laughed
just Cheryl will be fine
they were friendly welcoming.
So I will sing at 9 and 11 on Sunday
probably return to Sunday school between
perhaps I have found my place.








